Divorce Mediation Long Island for Nassau Suffolk means You Spend Less Money, Time and Pain

Need to divorce now? Don’t want to waste your money on the Long Island divorce lawyers? The Long Island Center for Divorce Mediation for Nassau and Suffolk offers you the opportunity through a Long Island divorce mediation to divorce at less cost for the divorce, in less time, and with less grief, than the traditional route of two lawyers and a Long Island contested divorce in the courts of Nassau and Suffolk.

You can Contact Us right away if you like for a free divorce mediation consultation, if you would like to make an appointment, would like more information, or if you have a question. Otherwise, keep reading.

Learn How Divorce Mediation Long Island will help you avoid a Contested Divorce in Nassau and Suffolk

The first thing you need is information. By reading below and by exploring this website you are going to learn…

–everything you need to know to realize that contested divorce litigation in the courts of Nassua and Suffolk is a disaster for you and your children

–that the legal system does not care about you; to get a result you want you are going to have to take charge of the process

–that spending vast sums of money on contested divorce litigation won’t get you what you want

–how to keep your children out of the contested divorce process of Nassau and Suffolk

–how to get your Long Island divorce over with quickly in Nassau and Suffolk

–how to avoid needless agony getting divorced

Do you want to learn more? Call now or email us for a free divorce mediation consultation.

Have you heard the stories of just how painful a full Long Island contested divorce is? A couple of years ago, I (Fred Klarer – former Long Island contested divorce attorney in both Nassau and Suffolk and now doing only divorce mediation), saw a couple for divorce mediation. I pretty much told them the settlement they would probably end up with. Each was too angry to settle. Each wanted two things — to get everything and to hurt the other. So they decided against divorce mediation and found their own Long Island divorce lawyers. Each forked out $7500 to get going for the retainer. Each told their Long Island divorce lawyer that they wanted to end up with the lion’s share, and their lawyers told them “No problem.”

Two years later, when the dust had settled after a contentious contested divorce trial in Suffolk county and the judge finally ruled on their case, the couple had spent over $60,000, hated each other even more, and the children had been forced to take sides. The irony was that the Judge’s settlement was precisely the one I had outlined two years earlier.

What was the point?

If you would like to avoid all that Call or email us now for a free divorce mediation consultation.

Is Divorce Mediation Long Island Nassau Suffolk the Right Choice for Me?

Do you qualify for divorce mediation in Nassau or Suffolk?

Not everyone can take advantage of the process of divorce mediation. If one partner wants to get even or wants everything, or wants to hide assets, divorce mediation probably won’t work. But for those who are angry and yet can put that anger aside to avoid financial ruin, and who want to be good to their children divorce mediation is the path to take.

Are you good candidates for mediation?

Can you put aside your anger for the sake of divorcing for far less money?

Do you realize that when you give up control to the Long Island divorce lawyers and the judges of Nassau and Suffolk, your situation becomes more unpredictable?

Do you want to ease the way for your children so that their lives are
more positive, after the pain of divorce?

Do you recognize that the courts of Nassau and Suffolk do not take sides, even if there is abuse or extra-marital sex, when it comes to property division?

What Benefits Does Divorce Mediation Long Island Nassau Suffolk Have for Me?

1. You get a highly expert Long Island divorce mediator who has mediated hundreds of cases in both Nassau and Suffolk, was one of the first divorce mediators on Long Island, and knows how to lead you both to a deal you can live with. Other mediators often come to me for advice.

2. You get my expertise as a former contested divorce attorney so that you are always clear as to what might happen if you were to go to court instead. Believe me, the shock of hearing the truth about the court system has moved many a stubborn spouse forward to settlement.

3. You get my experience as a  former business lawyer in New York city. Divorces always have a business deal embedded in them. I have negotiated hundreds of business deals between partner and adversaries – an art unto itself.

4. You get my compassion for your plight, based on my many years as a Buddhist and as a former Buddhist Monk. This compassion will allow you to feel cared about and nurtured while you are going through what could be the most difficult experience of your life in the courts of Nassau and Suffolk.

5. You get the benefit of my Harvard College and Harvard Law School educations, combined with a practical common sense so that your mediation ends up being a complete blueprint that helps you live through your divorce and into a successful future.

6. You get my knowledge of human beings, based on the mentoring I have received over the years from my well-known psychologist wife, Dr. Diane Kramer, so that there is never an unfair power imbalance.

7. You get to spend a lot less money, so that there is more for you to keep when you are single. Believe me, in this economy, that is not small potatoes.

8. You get help with how to deal with the children. If you do not have your own therapist for yourself or your children, I will recommend one in Nassau or Suffolk that fits your needs and situation.

9. You get help with budgets and financial thinking, so that you are getting the experience as if you went to a separate financial planner.

10. You will be really listened to and helped as quickly as possible so that there are no wasted sessions that are often included in fixed session divorce mediation packages.

To check out our expertise and learn for yourself, call or email me right now to set up a totally free consultation and assessment of your situation. We guarantee that you will end up with a divorce that will save you time, money, and pain. I guarantee that I will really listen to you.

We are located in the heart of Huntington Village, in Suffolk, right next to Nassau.

Call me today at 631-757-1553 or email me with the form to the right to set up an appointment today. Every delay causes you and your family more pain, more potential disruption and more personal unhappiness.

Fred Klarer